9 Illustrations That PERFECTLY Sum Up Life Before And AFTER Marriage
For those of you who are going to get arrange-married, don’t worry. This post holds true just as well for the beginning phase of marriages as it does for before and after marriage. Basically this post illustrates the stages that every relationship goes through. The beginning phases are always more romantic and exciting while the later parts are mature and full of compassion, support and care. There is one more thing that isn’t said enough; marrying for love is over-rated. Sorry for saying so but in my opinion it’s true. Marrying has so many advantages, you have a home, you have a settled life, kids that respect you, you get a purpose in life and finally you always have someone to lean on in times of hardship. Compromise makes relationships work better than love and that isn’t said enough. Anyway coming back to the point, here are some things that are different in relationships when they start and later on.
#1. THE TEXT MESSAGES YOU SEND ONE ANOTHER
Just like all other things, saying the “Love” word on a first-time basis is super exciting. It gets old as the relationship grows, almost automatic but that doesn’t mean it’s important. I think it becomes even more important later on.
#2. HOW YOUR MAN SHOWS HE LOVES YOU
At first, it’s all about little surprises, unexpected dates and romantic walks. Later on, you want the validification of love in other ways such as if your husband will do the laundry with you or if he helps around the house.